Does Having Sex Help Fight Anxiety

Does Having Sex Help Fight Anxiety?

Having sex may help you reduce anxiety and stress, but it is important to remember that having sex is not a one-size-fits-all solution.
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By: Mark Goldberg, LCMFT, CST

Having sex may help you reduce anxiety and stress, but it is important to remember that having sex is not a one-size-fits-all solution. Performance anxiety may be another factor impacting you in the bedroom which has some similarities with general anxiety, but it is different. 

Sex may help to ease some anxious feelings because it can release endorphins, which are chemicals in the brain that are associated with feelings of pleasure and happiness.

Sex can be a distraction from worries and negative thoughts. When you are having great sex, it can be easier to avoid anxious thoughts. However, everyone is different and in some cases, sex can lead to more anxiety.

Let’s dive into this important topic in mental health and sexual health to learn more.

What is Anxiety?

A man on a journey; curing ED is a journey.Anxiety is a normal and often healthy emotion. However, when a person regularly feels disproportionate levels of anxiety, it can become a medical disorder.

Anxiety disorders form a category of mental health diagnoses characterized by feelings of anxiety and fear. Anxiety is a feeling of unease, such as worry or fear, that can be mild or severe.

Everyone has feelings of anxiety at some point in their life – for example, you may feel worried and anxious about sitting an exam, or having a medical test or job interview. During times like these, feeling anxious can be perfectly normal.
However, some people find it hard to control their worries.

Their feelings of anxiety are more constant and can often affect their daily lives. Anxiety disorders can range from a generalized anxiety disorder, where a person feels anxious most days, to specific phobias, where a person feels anxious in particular situations.

Anxiety disorders are very common and are treatable.

Anxiety can manifest in various physical symptoms, such as a racing heart, difficulty breathing, and dizziness. It can also cause people to avoid certain situations or activities, as they fear the anxiety that these activities may trigger. It is important to seek help if anxiety is affecting daily life, as treatment can be very effective. A range of treatments are available, including therapy, medication, and lifestyle changes.

Sex, Anxiety, and Releasing Endorphins

Photo of the ErectionIQ.com logoAs we said at the start of this article, sex can be a great way to reduce anxiety and stress, but it is not a one-size-fits-all solution. For some people, sex can be a powerful stress-reliever, while for others it may not have the same effect.

One reason why sex may be helpful for reducing anxiety is that it can release endorphins, which are chemicals in the brain that are associated with feelings of pleasure and happiness.

Endorphins can help to elevate mood and reduce feelings of anxiety and stress. In addition, sex can also stimulate the release of oxytocin, a hormone that is often referred to as the “love hormone” because of its role in promoting feelings of bonding and attachment.

Oxytocin can also help to reduce anxiety and promote relaxation.

Another way that sex may be helpful for reducing anxiety is that it can serve as a distraction from worries and negative thoughts. When you are engaged in sexual activity, it can be easier to let go of anxiety-provoking thoughts and focus on the present moment.

This can help to reduce feelings of anxiety and stress.

The Final Verdict

However, it is important to note that sex may not be an effective way to reduce anxiety for everyone. In some cases, sex may actually increase anxiety, particularly if it is not consensual or if it is accompanied by feelings of shame or guilt.

It is also important to remember that sex should not be used as a way to avoid or suppress anxiety. Instead, it is important to address the root causes of anxiety and to seek out healthy ways to manage it.

It is also important to consider the quality of the sexual experience when evaluating its potential to reduce anxiety. If sex is enjoyable and satisfying, it is more likely to be helpful for reducing anxiety.

On the other hand, if sex is not enjoyable or if it is accompanied by feelings of discomfort or stress, it may not be as effective at reducing anxiety.

In addition to considering the quality of the sexual experience, it is also important to consider the overall context in which sex is occurring. If sex is occurring within the context of a healthy and supportive relationship, it is more likely to be helpful for reducing anxiety.

On the other hand, if sex is occurring within the context of a relationship that is marked by conflict or dysfunction, it may not be as effective at reducing anxiety.

Overall, sex can be a helpful way to reduce anxiety for some people, but it is important to remember that it is not a one-size-fits-all solution. It can help, but do not look at it as a potential panacea for your mental health and/or relationship issues. 

It is important to consider the quality of the sexual experience and the overall context in which it is occurring, as well as to address the root causes of anxiety and to seek out healthy ways — such as engaging in sex therapy — to manage it.

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Article Updated – January 2023